When dating women, you will meet an evil resistance when it comes to having physical contact with them. Mind you, this doesn’t happen with all women, but it happens enough that you should be aware of it.

When resistance occurs, most guys take it as a form of rejection and give up. They won’t even put up a fight, they’ll just accept the resistance and let them win.

What they do know is that resistance can be overcome, and you can do it without being a jerk or forcing the girl to do something she doesn’t want to do.

There are usually 2 causes of this type of resistance.

The First Cause is logical. This is typically the Eastern Type of Supercoma Resistance. Logical resistance is where women make up objections to the two of you getting together. These objections sometimes include:

1. Are we moving too fast? I don’t want him to think I’m easy.

2. I don’t want to get pregnant or get a disease.

3. What will my friends think if I hook up with this guy?

4. How do I know he’s not just trying to use me?

5. I really like this guy and I don’t want to ruin it by sleeping with him too soon.

And it goes on and on and on.

The second cause is emotional. This resistance comes from feelings that suddenly flare up. She may feel scared, insecure, or nervous, and give in to these feelings, and find some kind of excuse to do so.

Obviously guys have a hard time with emotional objections, they usually don’t realize what the girl is feeling to begin with!

so what to do? How can we deal with that?

At some point, we start moving too fast. This caused her to shut down, get nervous, or shut down completely.

All resistance, whether logical or emotional, stems from a lack of 2 critical things:

1.) Confidence

2.) Comfort

When a woman trusts you and is completely comfortable with you, you will never experience any resistance from her. Ever. It is only when these are missing that resistance rears its ugly head.

So to prevent resistance from happening, you really need to focus on getting the girl you’re with to trust you and feel comfortable with you.

When you encounter resistance, it is important to work on developing more trust and comfort with the child.

So how do you build trust and comfort?

Well, the two go hand in hand. If you can create one, the other will follow. The first way you can do this is to relax and have fun when you are with the girl. Joking around, laughing, and having a good time will relax her and make her feel comfortable around you.

Refrain from judging her and other people too harshly. THE LACK OF CONFIDENCE AND COMFORT USUALLY DERIVES FROM BEING JUDGED AND CRITICIZED. You have to let her know that she can make mistakes around you and that you won’t punish her for it.

Make her feel safe. Let her know that he is there for her when she needs him and that he cares about her. This goes a long way in building confidence and comfort.

And if he offers resistance, you get angry or upset! Instead, acknowledge it, agree with it, and talk about it. Allow her to express what scares her and help her get over it.

In time, she will feel comfortable enough with the situation and that resistance will become a thing of the past.

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