What is prayer?

Although your relationship with your ex may be broken, your relationship with God never is. His understanding of you is limitless. Prayer is that place where you and God meet in private and share His love for you and your worship for Him.

Everyone can pray. Good or bad, rich or poor, wise or foolish: God wants to hear what you have to say.

No matter how bad you feel, no matter how deeply you are wallowing in feelings of loss, failure, or worthlessness, you don’t need to feel ashamed when you draw near to the Lord. You can say to God, “I know you understand.”

Even if you have neglected your relationship with God, from His perspective you are not “gone” or “lost.” God has not lost sight of you, but He has always cared for you. He welcomes the intimacy of prayer from you and wants to guide you in moments of pain, as well as in those of joy.

Thy will be done!

Prayer is not just about asking God for miracles or asking Him to do what you want. In fact, it shouldn’t always be about “asking” at all.

The need to know how to get your ex back may be what brings you to your knees, but your goal should be to establish or strengthen your connection with God and discover what God wants for you.

You want to know how to get your ex back and you want God’s help to learn that, but God is not operating a self-service restaurant. You cannot just place your order. You must open your heart to God’s way for you and allow Him to lead you to your destination in His way and in His time.

Why should I pray?

1. Grace

Pray for God’s divine influence in every aspect of your life. Ask him to be with you as you go through this current crisis.

2. Patience

Pray for patience, because it will take a while to get your ex girlfriend or boyfriend back. You have a lot of work ahead of you, to heal, plan, learn and grow.

3. Self-knowledge

Pray for understanding of your own responsibilities within a relationship. Ask God to guide you as you review your broken relationship and look for signs of what went wrong.

Rely on God’s support as you consider whether your ex should be your partner for life and whether you should make changes within yourself to fulfill half the partnership and meet your ex’s needs.

4. Sorry

Ask God for the strength to forgive your ex for leaving you. And if you’ve hurt your ex, pray that your ex forgives you too.

If you are blaming yourself for the breakup, receive and accept God’s forgiveness, and pray that God will help you forgive yourself, as easily as He forgives you.

5. Security

Your desperation, wanting to know how to get your ex back, is caused by your insecurity. You feel that alone, you cannot be a whole person. Ask God to help you fight your need. Pray for His love to fill and complete you, so that you can bring an emotionally healthy and whole person into your relationship with your ex.

Pray “Father, I know you love me” as often as it takes for you to believe it in your heart and mind. With your love will come security.

6. Empathy

Pray that he will help you see your relationship from your ex’s perspective. Seek God’s guidance in understanding your ex’s needs for unconditional love, encouragement, companionship, and intimacy.

Let God be with you as you honestly observe how well you and your ex meet each other’s needs.

7. Words

Ask God to help you find the best and most effective words to communicate with your ex, when the time is right.

What about prayer websites?

God hears you very well. You don’t need to post your prayers on a forum or ask other people to pray on your behalf.

Praying louder is not more effective, and neither are added voices. Remember, you cannot trick God into doing what you want. You don’t need to convince him how much it hurts. He will help you, simply because you ask.

Do you want God’s answer on how to get your ex back? Get down on your knees spiritually and talk to him.

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