When the effort slips away and you feel tired, but you still find that you have to continue and finish what you are trying to do despite the feelings of tiredness and laziness that can get in the way of ultimate achievement; the only way out and towards a second wind is the cold and objective perseverance “like a machine”. Do this, until you realize the way past your worst enemies, which are the feelings of tiredness and laziness. The first sentence may seem rambling, but I had to fit the gist of this article into a single sentence so that the rest could be explained nicely and realistically broken down with complete purity of understanding.
Realize that your best friend is success and discipline. Realize the reality of the situation that must be welcomed and understood and follow that reality. That is the only reality that counts. No other fantasy counts. No other fantasy works. Only reality is reality. Now, sure, this article actually sounds like some kind of thought-provoking talk. It is not. It is a genuine call to integrate your life with what you honestly want from life inside of you and then outside of yourself. In that order. You, as being conscious with conscience, are your own decision maker, your own technician and your own technician. In this regard, fear and irrational subjectivity is your worst enemy. Cause abandonment, failure and destruction if you let it. Note that I use the words “leave it”. Because, since you have a conscience and a choice in all matters, if you have the intelligence and functionality to understand this article, you always have the option to create success and make efforts on your part to create success. Because peace of mind doesn’t come from enemies, it only comes from friends who are completely for you, no matter what. That’s the kind of friend who makes himself successful, a friend who won’t betray you except when you falter or sabotage your own efforts. In fact, you must genuinely listen to yourself to know, determine, and achieve, in that order, what you really want, need, and accomplish in a genuinely worthwhile way.
Life is made and created by coldly rational universal laws that are invariably feasible and immutable. When used correctly, they create and produce warm, happy emotions and a workable reality. When misused, they create failure, frustration, and sadness. This concept in this short paragraph is the key to understanding how and why to be consistently successful in a self-made way.
So, sure, I’m coldly rational and honest. But my feelings as I write this article are warm and helpful, this is an example that I am talking about when writing this article. I know a writer is not supposed to use himself as an example while writing his own article, but if you want first-hand proof that this advice works, it is best to show it that way. Because honesty is what honesty shows, and then it’s real. Because no one is free or good until he’s totally honest with everyone, including themselves. This is the concept of genuine self-denial, and note that I am not referring to anything altruistic or irrational sacrifice, I am referring to totally rational thought and act that is geared towards self-interest, but encompasses compassion for others. within the total ratio. I would say that such irrational altruism and sacrifice is “beyond me”, but I won’t, now that I understand the real, genuine and honest nature of these things. People who sacrifice what they want and love are simply immature in looking good to themselves and others and not even to mature in a rational way. Destructively satisfying irrational emotional needs is not maturity, it is destruction and dishonesty. It is being an enemy of yourself and practicing self-hatred. Maturity and personal fulfillment are the ultimate in self-esteem, consistency, self-discipline, and success.
In fact, practicing understanding and loving yourself is not immature. As it is also ripe to create a great and desirable life for yourself. Doing what is genuinely best for you and then for everyone else is the best approach in life, because you can’t love others if you don’t love yourself first and then pay yourself first, in that order. Rational discipline thus functions as a coolly objective universal law that does not vary. Because in fact, you cannot benefit anyone else or pay anyone without having what you have yourself. Self-responsibility is power, genuine power.