If you are a guy who lost his girl, chances are you are having a hard time getting your friends to support you in getting your ex back. This is very common among men because your friends just want to see you happy, not moaning and complaining about how much you miss her. Here are some tips on how to get your ex back, from a woman’s perspective.
You cheated? If so, you have to find ways to win back their trust. Cheating is very hard for someone to get over, but the real trick is overcoming the real trust issues that come with it. Even though you and your ex are apart, she may become more and more needy to want to know your every move. Don’t let this irritate you. Rather, you should let her know who you’re with and what you’re doing whenever she asks you. However, never just offer the information because, in a woman’s mind, that just means she’s overcompensating and she’s probably hiding something.
Are you getting tired of waiting? Too! Patience is a virtue and if you really want your ex back, you HAVE to be patient and understanding. The last thing you should do is start giving him ultimatums. Never say something like, “I know you’re trying to figure things out, but I need to know now if we have a second chance.” You may think you’re being sweet and understanding by saying these things, but all you hear is “I’m being pushy and trying to control you.” Sound ridiculous? Well, welcome to the female brain.
Do you just want to profess your love for her and get it over with? If the answer is yes, I know how you feel, but what your ex needs right now is a little play. I know it’s the awful truth, but if you want your ex back, you might have to be the best player in the game. If you haven’t done anything wrong, like cheating on yourself, being mysterious and aloof is your best bet for getting your ex back. If she calls and wants to talk, she’ll keep things short and sweet. If she asks what you’re doing, ALWAYS have plans, even if you have to make them up. Trust me, this will have your ex running back to you in no time.