It has been said that the eyes are the window to the soul. When it comes to women, it couldn’t be more true. Learning to decipher the mystery behind a woman’s eyes by flirting with eye contact is key to knowing how to make a woman want you.
What is flirting with eye contact?
More or less, it is a form of body language. A woman, or a man, can use flirting with eye contact to let a person of the opposite sex know that you are interested in them and that they would be receptive to their approach. Too many times, a man completely misinterprets or misses these “looks” altogether. For just a minute, think about how much better your love life would be if you knew how to identify and read the eye contact flirting signals that ALL women use.
There are 4 signs of eye contact flirting to identify. We’ll see:
- Getting closer – This look is basic and simple but very meaningful. A woman uses this appearance as a “green light” for a man to know that he is approachable. Have you ever looked across a room and noticed a woman who smiled at you? You were “lit green!” Your first move should be obvious: get off your butt and get closer to her.
- Vertical – This look is used by men frequently. You might be surprised to learn that women use it too, although it is so subtle that you may never have noticed it. The vertical look is the classic “up and down” look. It may not always catch you, but when you do, use it to your advantage. The psychology here is simple: he likes your face and wants to see more. So give it more … or go home!
- I like you – You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to find out, but you do have to know what to look for. What we are talking about here is dilated pupils. This is a great indicator that you like what you see. She will have no idea that you are reading her flirtatious signs while looking into her eyes. All humans have an involuntary physical reaction to seeing something they like. When your pupils dilate or expand, it means you like what you see. This look is an open invitation for you to move in.
- Kiss Me – You don’t want to miss this one. You may only get this look once, so you need to pay attention. When you look into a woman’s eyes, does her gaze move from your eyes to your mouth and vice versa? You just got the “kiss me” look! It is a non-verbal clue that may be voluntary or involuntary on your part. The important thing is that he is at least thinking of kissing you. So you or not? If you feel like there is chemistry between the two, go ahead, give it a big, wet one right between the petals. If not, focus on creating the report before proceeding further.
Rarely will a woman make a move on you verbally. This is why it is so important to recognize the signs of non-verbal flirting that he will use to get your attention. By using flirting with eye contact, she will make her point. Do not miss it.