It’s a fact: if you want to score with hot girls, you have to be the owner of your domain. You have to master your social skills.
It’s easy to believe that appearance is the most important thing, but you are WRONG. As Joseph Matthews, aka Thundercat, says, “The biggest limiting belief that guys have that prevents them from being successful is the belief that APPEARANCE MATTERS.”
Much more important for women is how well you interact with others, both men and women. You can be the most handsome guy in the world, but if you can’t muster anything to say to a group of people, or you don’t know how to keep their interest and make them WANT to get to know you, then you’re not going to attract women. Period.
The good news is, if you know how to interact with people socially, nothing can stop you from attracting the high-quality, beautiful women you want! Even if you’re short, bald, fat, ugly, or all four, if you know HOW to make people laugh, HOW to engage your audience, and HOW to build and share connections and relationships with people…then it’s you. You have no problem attracting beautiful women!
With that being said, let’s now look at the top 5 people skills to impress and attract women from all over the world:
1. Smug Comedy: Specifically, busting someone’s balls off and making fun of them.
As I describe in great detail in my course, humor is one of the most powerful weapons out there for generating attraction. But the purpose of humor is not to make people laugh; it is to show that you are in control and able to make people feel better in your presence. A guy who makes people laugh lifts people’s moods and makes them want to stay with him, a truly amazing power to hold.
As David DeAngelo says,
“If you want to be funny, get a joke book. If you want to learn how to make a woman attracted to you by the way you talk to her and communicate with her, then focus what you’re going to learn on CREATING AND AMPLIFYING ATTRACTION. “.
This can be done in a number of ways, but the best ones are the fun ways that show you are ABOVE her and don’t NEED her. This usually means being a bit of a jerk and busting a girl’s balls off, especially in front of her friends.
An example is making fun of a girl in front of her friends. A guy who has the balls to say, “Man, does this girl EVER shut up?” or “Is she always this annoying?” to a girl’s group of friends, she wields incredible power. He will quickly fit in with the group, make them laugh, and come across as a cool, attractive guy all rolled into one.
Because? Because doing something daring and something rude makes people remember you. People get bored every day: in the morning they wake up, have a boring breakfast, drive their monotonous commute to work, get bored at work, drive the same monotonous commute back home, eat their boring dinner, watch their boring TV, hang out with the same boring people, go to bed, wake up, and do it all over again.
They’re looking for something new… so it’s YOUR job to break their status! Give them something different, something fun, something that makes them go, “I can’t believe I said that!” Breaking a girl’s balls, pointing out her ridiculous skirt or some weird personality trait takes people out of their element, makes them laugh, and creates an emotional connection with you. They remember you and want to see you again.
Most importantly, they want their girlfriends to see you again! So if you can impress one girl in a group, you can impress them all! And that’s the fastest path to the sexual intimacy and attraction you so desire.
For more detailed information on how to use these skills for high-powered sexual attraction and social dominance, see
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/
2. Tell stories
Work on your narrative as much as possible. A guy who can captivate an audience with amazing stories that attract listeners impresses women and becomes very attractive. It’s a combination of power, intelligence, and social maneuvering all rolled into one—a very attractive combination.
But you don’t have to have traveled around the world or climbed Mount Everest to have an impressive story; it all comes down to how you present your story. That means your tone, tone, volume: all kinds of ways that you speak. Great storytellers take a boring story and make it compelling.
For more information on how to tell a compelling story, check out Renee Grant-Williams’ excellent book, Voice power.
3. Being the Center of the Universe of People, also known as Being a Leader
Girls don’t want someone who kisses people’s butts. They want a guy who is in control, a guy whose universe only revolves around one person: HIMSELF. An attractive guy doesn’t need other people to be happy and validated; he only needs himself.
As David DeAngelo says,
“A woman wants a man who is strong enough to draw her in, hold her in his orbit, and keep her there…but what really keeps her ‘attracted’ (feeling attraction) is the tension that comes from not being all the way there. .”
I mean, you have to be able to bring a group of people closer… but not too close. Keep a girl curious, keep her wanting more. This can be done by teasing her and pushing her away from her, slapping her on the wrist, or making jokes about her in front of her friends. Tell him to unfollow you: “Man, stop stalking me, you’re driving me crazy!”
Even better, walk away just when things get good. Let’s say you have to go see your friends or go somewhere else.
For example, if you’ve told a great story that makes everyone laugh, just leave when everyone is cracking up. Show that your universe is so big that you have more important things to do. This will give people, especially your target, time to reflect on how great you are and have them come looking for you to hear more. They will plead with you to stay, but insist that you have to go. This will make them want you even more and your target will chase you and lunge at you. Gold attraction!
4. Vocal Celibacy
This is an excellent, often overlooked skill recommended by attraction expert Carlos Xuma.
Believe it or not, sometimes the best skill is just to shut up. That’s right: a man who listens attracts people. Have you ever noticed how women, and even men, flock to guys who like them and listen to them?
Well, you don’t have to be a suave Dr. Phil type to be a good listener. In fact, listening brings with it a great deal of POWER. By pausing for a few seconds after someone says something, making them wait for you to respond, you make them feel restless, expectant…and, in the case of women, more attracted to you. Because you show that you have the upper hand. You are in control.
As Xuma says,
“Next time a woman asks you a question, PAUSE for a moment. Keep pushing the edge until you can’t answer the question at all. She’ll try to make you uncomfortable, but if you can handle that, she’ll escalate.” confidence from her immeasurably.”
More importantly, it will make HER more confident in you… she can’t help but want to be drawn into your universe. You are unlike anyone she has ever met before!
What is the fifth social skill you need to attract women?
Well, I can’t tell you everything here. this last one is so good that it would be a crime for me to write just a few paragraphs about it here! This is the real deal, make or break, the skill that all naturals, all gurus, all masters of pickup MUST use to get into a woman’s heart. It will make not only your target attracted to you, but also her entire group of friends!
Where do you find out about it? Well I can’t tell you there, but check out my “Author Bio” for your link to success. Peace.