“Every decision you make, every decision, is not a decision about what to do.
It is a decision about who you are.
When you see this, when you understand it, everything changes.
You start to see life in a new way.
All events, occurrences and situations become opportunities.
to do what you came here to do.”
~Neale Donald Walsch
Although you may not be able to change some of the external conditions surrounding your life, you can begin by changing the experiences you face on the inside, as well as your attitude about your grief and loss. A clear understanding of who you are will help you see the occurrence and status of your complaint in a new way. Here are 7 critical grievance decisions that can help you stop grieving and start healing.
Complaint Healing Decision #1
BEWARE OF A LONG TERM CHICKEN LITTLE DANCE Consider the opposite and opposite results of you doing a damn “Chicken Little” dance in the long run. However, if you feel the need to dance temporarily and lightly, we won’t judge you. Turn up the music loud now for it! Just don’t continually do the carefree little chicken dance.
“Life is magnificent, just as it comes. Life does not need fancy clothes or lipstick. Life is not a pig. Our life is the greatest gift in all creation. When we are not happy with life, when we are surprised the actions of politicians, or corporations, or our “enemies”, or our “friends”, or even by natural forces – let’s not lash out in anger. But also, let’s not try to embellish life with a little of lipstick and some party clothes See life clearly – without rose-colored glasses – and then CHOOSE to love life CHOOSE to be happy, to be joyful, to be grateful, to forgive each and every act we believe has hurt us hurt. Life simply “IS”. We can CHOOSE our relationship with life. Life is in the perspective we take on it.”
~Jonathan Lockwood Huie
How important, indeed essential, is what you choose and how you react to who you are.
Grievance Healing Decision #2 DEFENSE YOUR OBSTACLES
“Face your obstacles and do something about it.
You’ll find out they’re not half as strong as you think they are.”
~Norman Vincent Peale
Tort occurrences usually bring to mind an abundance of despair. A product of the grievance that happens in your life is impotence. Coping with physical and emotional despair is a challenge you can face head-on with all your energy.
“When you find yourself in a bind and everything is going against you, until it seems like you can’t take another minute, never give up, for that is the place and time the tide will turn.”
~Harriet Beecher-Stowe
Can! You have more energy and strength than you initially think is inside of you.
Complaint Healing Decision #3 HOW IS YOUR CANDLE? “Greatness is not where we stand, but in which direction we move. We must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it, but we must sail, and not drift, nor drop anchor. ‘It’s the game of the sail that decides the goal, and not the storm of life”.
~ Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Your daily efforts should not drift or remain anchored.
“There are no restrictions on the human mind, no walls around the human spirit, no barriers to our progress except those we erect ourselves.”
~Ronald Reagan
A path of happiness is best achieved by controlling your sail, not the wind. Do not allow yourself to put barriers to your progress.
Grief Healing Decision #4 CHOOSE WISELY HOW YOU REACT TO LIFE EVENTS “We can always choose to perceive things differently.
You can focus on what’s wrong in your life, or you can focus on what’s right.”
~Marianne Williamson
You cannot choose an external circumstance, but how you respond to it is always your choice.
“Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.”
~Charles R. Swindoll
Wow! Have you ever thought that 90% of what your life is like depends on how you react to it?
“If we could change our attitude, we should not only see life differently, but life itself would be different.”
~Katherine Manfield
An important goal to keep in mind every day is to choose wisely how you react to events in your life. It is important that you believe that you can change your life by changing your attitude.
Grievance Healing Decision #5 DO YOUR REACTIONS ROAR LIKE A LION? “Courage doesn’t always roar.
Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day that says, “I’ll try again tomorrow.”
~Mary Anne Radmacher
Always your attitude should be “I’ll keep trying.”
“Action is a great restorer and confidence builder. Inaction is
not only the result but the cause, of fear. maybe the action
take will be a success; maybe different actions or
adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than none
action at all”.
~Norman Vincent Peale
Being docile and passive can cause unwanted fear. Taking action, even if it’s just baby steps, can restore enough confidence to try again tomorrow.
Complaint Healing Decision #6
PERCEIVING THE POSSIBILITY OF HEALING YOUR GRIEF IS
ESSENTIAL
“Since you insist on obtaining a perfect and immediate resolution to your
grief, you can be completely paralyzed by the complexity and
problem size. A better response may be to accept gradual changes
imperfect solutions as you act by taking small steps and moving forward
towards the relief of complaints.” ~Duane H. Marchant
Being proactive with care, kindness, and regularly doing lots of little things is not a little thing, IT’S A BIG THING! do not give up
“The world exists as you perceive it… It’s not what you see, but how you see it… It’s not what you hear, but how you hear it…
It’s not what you feel… it’s how you feel.”
~rumi
See your grievance condition as something you can heal! He believes that healing is like that. I believe in you.
Complaint Healing Decision #7
HEALING BLESSINGS COME IN MANY FORMS
“Healing blessings come in many forms, each tailored to our individual needs, as known by the One who loves us most. Sometimes a ‘healing’ cures our illness or lightens our burden. But sometimes we are ‘healed’ when we are given strength or understanding or patience to bear the burdens placed on us.” ~ Elder Dallin H. Oaks November 2006 Liahona
I believe in God who can give you the understanding and the strength to
take your grievance and heal or remove your burden. Sometimes because
of the complexity of the occurrence of your complaint, you can forget
about an affectionate and companion vital inspiration. be in communion with
God. If he does, he will give him the blessing of greater ability to stop
mourn and begin to heal.
Watch out for the eternal chicken dance.
Face your obstacles and do something about it. Tea
The game of sailing decides your goal and not the storm of life.
Choose wisely how you react to life events. Sometimes
Courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day that says, “I will try
again tomorrow”. Perceiving the possibility of healing your grievance is
essential. Healing blessings come in many forms. Common with God.
May your personal world be kind to you, and may your own thoughts be tender and kind to you.