Let’s go straight to this…

So basically you need to wander around your town until you find a girl you think you might like to talk to and then when you approach her directly…

And when you have their attention saying something similar to “Excuse me…” then say:

“Sorry, could I borrow your phone for a second please…” while maintaining strong eye contact…

Depending on the effectiveness of her approach (see the three points below), she may or may not hand over her phone, if not just say thank you and walk away.

If she does, pick up the phone and enter your number and call her right away (make sure your phone is charged), once your phone starts ringing, pull it out and say thank you to the girl and return the phone to her with a smile.


The effectiveness of the technique of how to get a girl’s number depends almost solely on the three factors below, there is NO point in getting the girl’s number if you do not create some kind of bond with the girl, since she will simply delete yours when she leaves and doesn’t reply to your messages.

1. Assume

This exercise depends almost exclusively on confidence, if a girl notices a hint of uncertainty in your eyes, she will feel the incongruity between your thoughts, words and actions and she will miss her. You have to be 100% sure that this will or will NOT work.

So how do you get this unwavering trust?


The first time you do this it will be a disaster, but no one will die, so try it anyway.

Then little by little you will improve and confidence will start to show as you build successful referral experiences.

2.Eye contact

Throughout the exercise, you MUST maintain cool, confident eye contact with the girl. This is where she will subconsciously look to check your trust.

But make sure you don’t make the mistake of staring, if she breaks eye contact you should too. Don’t look like a psychopath.

3. Qualify and seed the date

Once you have her number, it’s important that you do the following two things if you want to see her again:

Qualify: You have to give him a reason why you want his phone number, otherwise he’ll just assume you do this with every single girl, which will drastically reduce the chance of him going on a date with you.

Seed The Date – She has to know that you’re going to ask her out, otherwise she’ll get your message asking her to do something and think “why can’t she ask me to my face?”. Again, be careful not to sound desperate here and perhaps just say “oh I’ll take you to X” or “we should do X”.

Okay, go out there and try your new skill, but remember, now that you know how to get a girl’s number in less than 5 minutes, use this skill ethically.

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