Your boyfriend forgot to call you and you feel abandoned and hurt. While it’s completely understandable to most women why you feel this way, men just don’t get it. Men view phone calls in a completely different way. If you react emotionally when he doesn’t call, he’s likely to label you a drama queen and create distance between the two of you. Either that or he’ll think you’re desperate and that will instantly kill his attraction to you. There is a very simple way to handle the issue of phone calls with men. If you’re tired of endlessly waiting for your man to call you, do this and it will change the way he views phone calls from this day forward.
If your boyfriend forgot to call you, ignore him. His reaction is probably the opposite of this. You’ll probably seek him out and then tell him exactly how he makes you feel when he puts your needs aside. We have all been guilty of this. It is very natural to feel abandoned when the man you love forgets about you. However, if you blow up on him, he’s likely to label you unstable and overly emotional. You don’t want that to happen because once it happens, it’s very hard to change his opinion of you.
Men become complacent in relationships when they know that their girlfriend loves them. They stop trying so hard to please her and one way to show it is through phone calls. If your guy was the type to keep calling you in the early days of your relationship and now that has stopped, it really got to the point where he knows you’ll still adore him anyway. It is common for men to become lazy and stop doing the things we want them to do. That’s why it’s so effective if you stand back a bit and don’t call him all the time. This small action will show him that he still does not fully own your heart. He will realize that he needs to keep trying to make you happy. Creating just a little bit of distance is often the best way to win back a man’s attention and affection. Try it. He will be pleasantly surprised how many more times a day he calls you when you stop calling him.